Marriage and Adultery! Impact on your next generation.

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This is based on a true story

Chapter 1:

My name is Jyothi Singh a 26 year old female, I am quite pretty and self-confident. I am a working woman in IT in Hi-Tech City, Hyderabad in one of the Indian based MNC. I am the third child in my family, quite pampered since childhood and being the only girl in the family, I always had lot of attention from my parents and siblings.

Though my parents are quite religious, I somehow turned out to be atheist. This may be one of the reasons I am so inclined to western culture and dislike Indian culture and traditions for multiple reasons; though I never been out of my country! I somehow am fascinated and inclined by my friends talking about it and also watching western movies a lot.

Though, I come from a middle class family, I was pretty much shielded with the problems in the real life by my family. So I am always inclined towards a happy and stress less life, I just go by flow. I like to be up to date with technology and trends and fashion.

Chapter 2:

My name is Abhi Uditeswar I am 28 year old male, I am from Chennai. I am an IT professional working for a US client directly. I am the eldest and the only male in the family. So I always had lot of responsibilities since childhood. I have seen the real life, the pain, the struggle for survival.

Though I was born middle class, my great grandparents were really affluent. My grandfather inherited 15 acres (653K sq feet) of land from his father who owned 30 acres of land and was a local Munasib, all lost by trusting wrong people. When I was born, all that we had was a rented home with 150 sq ft space to live in India. I was raised by my father to know importance of money and trust in humans, and my mother taught me the importance of relationships.

I am quite spiritual but not so religious, I strongly believe in concept of humanity, trust and respect in relationships and elders. I am hard worker, I plan and work towards what I need, even if it means stretching my limits to achieve and obtain something in my life by facing any challenges laid out by truthful means.

Chapter “99”:

Jyothi is now 50 years old helping orphans.

She is back from a camp and sat in her rolling chair and thinking about Abhi and her kid Saradha while she was looking at her photo album....

After 30 years from the time when Abhi and Jyothi got married…

Both of their lives have changed a lot after they got divorced 14 years after their marriage, when they separated with the only child Saradha’s responsibility falling in the lap of Jyothi.

Everything was going in its natural flow, but a day came where things changed for Jyothi.

Saradha committed suicide! Upon her marriage failure! 

Abhi died with heart failure upon hearing the news of her lovely daughter’s tragedy!

How did this all happen?

As they say “Karma cannot be escaped”.

Saradha fell in love with Sarath. Who she thought is a nicest human being. But Sarath had a parallel affair with Saradha’s friend Mary while he was in relationship with Saradha, ignorant of the fact that Mary and Saradha are good friends.

Mary and Saradha were never aware of who they were in relationship with, until one day Saradha came to know about it a month before her marriage when Mary dropped from her short overseas trip after Saradha’s engagement with Sarath. She recognized him and briefed about Sarath immediately

Saradha could not take this betrayal and went to meet Sarath’s father Praveen. Praveen denied of his son doing such an act and called out that she was doing all this for money. And also told her a bitter truth that she was from a family where there are no morals and values, adding to fact that Jyothi her mother was in illegal relationship with someone during her marriage!

Unable to digest the fact Saradha went to find more and found that her mother Jyothi and Praveen were in illegal relationship! Saradha went to her mother Jyothi to directly talk to her about this and her mother agreed that she was in relationship with Praveen but not aware till her marriage alliance that Praveen was Sarath’s father! She said it just happened in a flow and there is nothing much can be done about it now so she kept numb.

Saradha could not take the pain of betrayal! She imagined how his father would feel about it as he loved her mother so much and only she knows a father who can look after her child with so much care, can imagine how much his father could have loved her Mom.

Thousands of thoughts ran in her brain! She thought the truth should not be known to his father so she decided to bury it with her death!

Abhi who was very practical, never believed his daughter was not so coward, he knew how brave her daughter was. So he went to find the real reason; he found out the reason!

Though Abhi thought Jyothi got separated as she was not happy, he never imagined that she would cheat him in his back! And that mistake of hers could one day cost her daughter’s life and his!

—The End of Chapter 99.

Friends! In any relationship transparency, honesty and trust are very important. We think we are smart enough to use technology and couple of lie’s to cheat on someone. But what we are forgetting is this charm, this momentary happiness is not going to last forever. It is the persons love and the person himself being by your side till his last breath. And what you do will one day have an impact on you and your family!

In life it is good to go by where the wind blows! But remember when in relationship you cannot follow the wind, it only means you are tied loose and you may not be ready for a serious relationship.

If you feel so do not hesitate to come out and live your own life as you like but betraying others is betraying your own self.

In a relationship partners are like a thread and kite tied back to person (relationship/marriage/family etc) operating from ground. So even if wind blows harsh or there is no wind, you safely reach ground to the person operating it! But if you are tied lose! You know what happens.

In this ever changing modern world! Technology is a boon! Use it to bring stronger relationships and better place for our next generations and not easy, pleasurable, weaker parallels!

Stronger families form stronger societies, stronger societies form stronger states, stronger states pave way to better life of next generations. After all this life is all about survival and evolution into stronger beings not weaker child lings.